{"id":99884,"date":"2025-10-23T14:32:42","date_gmt":"2025-10-23T14:32:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sotnews.agency\/?p=99884"},"modified":"2025-10-23T14:32:42","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T14:32:42","slug":"sex-in-marriage-is-a-responsibility-like-paying-bills-rev-rabbi-odame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sotnews.agency\/?p=99884","title":{"rendered":"Sex in marriage is a responsibility like paying bills \u2013 Rev. Rabbi Odame"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class='booster-block booster-read-block'>\n                <div class=\"twp-read-time\">\n                \t<i class=\"booster-icon twp-clock\"><\/i> <span>Read Time:<\/span>2 Minute, 31 Second                <\/div>\n\n            <\/div><div>\n<p>Sex in marriage should be treated as a responsibility just like paying bills, Rev Rabbi Odame has said on Joy Prime\u2019s relationship talk show, Let\u2019s Talk, hosted by Aseiduwaa.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Tuesday\u2019s episode focused on a couple struggling with sexual dissatisfaction which led to both partners becoming addicted to masturbation and reliant on sex toys.<\/p>\n<p>Rev Odame stressed the importance of sexual intimacy in marriage, describing it as a form of communication that reflects love and respect between partners. \u201cSex is supposed to be like the way you make payments for bills, because making payments for your bills is your responsibility,\u201d he stated.<\/p>\n<p>He advised that couples should engage in sexual activity regularly to strengthen their bond. \u201cAs a couple, you should have sex at least four times a week,\u201d he said, adding that sexual intimacy improves communication and emotional connection within a marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Touching on masturbation, Rev Odame described it as a spiritual issue that begins in the mind through lust and mental imagery. \u201cYou create a picture of yourself either with your girlfriend or boyfriend having sex in your mind and it gives some sort of pleasure,\u201d he explained, warning that \u201cpulling or pushing of your penis as a man loses its elasticity.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He encouraged couples to explore different aspects of their sexuality while they are young, noting that ageing can affect one\u2019s sexual activity. \u201cWhen you get old, the generator goes off and there is no light down there,\u201d he remarked, adding that it is important to experience sexual variety before it becomes physically difficult in later years.<\/p>\n<p>Rev Odame recommended natural remedies such as garlic for men facing sexual challenges and insisted that the male sexual organ does not \u201cdie\u201d unless the individual is physically dead. He urged men to understand their wives\u2019 hormonal changes and learn how to sexually satisfy them. \u201cYou need to know how to satisfy her so she doesn\u2019t use sex toys, and it is easy to give your wife an orgasm without penetration,\u201d he noted.<\/p>\n<p>The conversation also touched on spiritual consequences, with Rev Odame warning that uncontrolled sexual desires and unbiblical sexual acts could lead to sin. \u201cAnything you do sexually which is not biblical can lead to you going to hell,\u201d he warned.<\/p>\n<p>He further shared a personal experience, cautioning parents to be vigilant about their children\u2019s interactions with house helps. According to him, some maids introduce children to sexual activity without the knowledge of their employers. \u201cAs parents, open your eyes, because my mum never knew her maid had introduced me to sexual activities,\u201d he revealed.<\/p>\n<p>Rev Odame concluded by advising couples to control their emotions, avoid triggers that lead to masturbation, and seek spiritual guidance through prayer. \u201cThey should pray, motivate themselves, and stay away from anything or place that gives them access to sex toys or the urge to masturbate,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s Talk airs every Tuesday at 9pm on Joy Prime, offering healing, comfort and peace of mind to the burdened and heartbroken.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"722\" height=\"1024\"src=\"https:\/\/sotnews.agency\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/606da564-29ae-4f5d-ad17-be8d17a2212c.jpeg\" alt=\"Sex in marriage is a responsibility like paying bills - Rev. 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