{"id":90628,"date":"2025-08-20T23:28:00","date_gmt":"2025-08-20T23:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sotnews.agency\/?p=90628"},"modified":"2025-08-20T23:28:00","modified_gmt":"2025-08-20T23:28:00","slug":"its-always-the-woman-who-starts-it-rev-abbeams-explosive-take-on-joy-primes-lets-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sotnews.agency\/?p=90628","title":{"rendered":"\u2018It\u2019s always the woman who starts it\u2019 \u2013 Rev. Abbeam\u2019s explosive take on Joy Prime\u2019s Let\u2019s Talk"},"content":{"rendered":"
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A heated storm erupted on Joy Prime\u2019s relationship show Let\u2019s Talk<\/em> when Ambassador Rev. Dr. Abbeam Danso boldly declared that women \u2014 not men \u2014 are the real initiators of sexual intercourse.<\/p>\n

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\u201cThere has never been a sexual intercourse that the approach is by a man. It is always by the woman,\u201d he insisted, sparking gasps and debate among viewers.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

According to him, this was how God designed it from the very beginning \u2014 women using their beauty to \u201cseduce, capture and lure men.\u201d<\/p>\n

But that was just the beginning of his fiery remarks. Rev. Abbeam went on to warn women against pressuring men into marriage, saying that a long relationship or even having a child together does not guarantee commitment.<\/p>\n

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\u201cHaving a child with you doesn\u2019t mean you qualify to be a wife,\u201d he stated firmly.<\/p>\n

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He challenged women to be financially independent, arguing that men should not be the sole providers.<\/p>\n

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\u201cAs a woman, you should bring something to the table,\u201d he said, adding that women who support their partners in projects leave men with no excuses to delay marriage.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Rev. Abbeam also criticised parents for neglecting their duty to guide their children\u2019s relationships, accusing many of leaving their sons and daughters to \u201cdate blindly\u201d without making proper inquiries.<\/p>\n

On men\u2019s intentions, he was blunt:<\/p>\n

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\u201cSome men just want to keep you for sex because you\u2019re attractive \u2014 not because they want to marry you.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

He further stressed that sex alone cannot sustain a relationship, warning that women who rely on it risk being disappointed.<\/p>\n

To conclude, Rev. Abbeam laid down his formula for what makes a true wife: cleanliness, neatness, and personal growth.<\/p>\n

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\u201cAs a woman, what makes you a wife is how neat you are and how you keep your space clean. And you must also build your career,\u201d he emphasized.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

His comments have since sparked fierce debate on social media, with many questioning whether his views reflect reality or outdated stereotypes.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s Talk<\/em> airs every Tuesday at 9 p.m. on Joy Prime, providing an open, non-judgmental platform for raw discussions on love, sex, and relationships.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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